By Bae Ji-sook
Depression is becoming a key issue in society as more people are looking to learn about the condition after hearing that it was one of the reasons behind pop singer Yuni's suicide on Jan. 21.
The daily Medical Today said yesterday that depression is considered one of the more serious conditions or illnesses people can suffer from _ more so than even cancer _ since the news broke out.
Moreover, a report showed that more and more Koreans are suffering from some form of depression. The Korea Labor Institute said a survey of 10,225 men and women aged 45 or over during the July-December period last year showed that more than 22 percent of respondents suffered from depression.
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For many years American Drug Companies have promoted the idea that depression is a disease in order to sell antidepressants. Depression is a natural and normal part of the human condition and a symptom that something is not right in our lives. It is a mistake to "treat" depression without trying to understand why it is there in the first place.
Depression is a natural and normal part of the human condition
I wonder if the families of the 12-15% of depressives who take their lives would agree with you.
It is a mistake to "treat" depression without trying to understand why it is there in the first place.
Most cases of depression (and anxiety disorders) develop within a year of a significant life event, a bereavement or a life threatening illness (of self, family or friend), divorce, job loss/change, moving house, major disasters like 9/11, etc.
Knowing what triggered the depression does not seem to help. Nor does years of kicking over the ashes of one's life in psycho analysis. Psycho therapies that do have good track records, mostly the cognitive/behavioral based ones, do not concentrate on the why but focus on ways of dealing with the now.
Korea is one messed up country. Korean society has gotten to the point where every Korean girl believes they can become the next 'U-nee' or 'Kim Hye Sun' simply through plastic surgery. Every Korean girl literally believes they are one visit to the plastic surgeon away from becoming the next 'super-talent', but what they don't realize is that all the fame and glory in the world will never fill that cavern of insecurity in their heart.
It shames me as a fellow Korean to know that Korean women, who are arguably the most beautiful women in the world and definitely in all of Asia, have to cheapen themselves in such a way and not be happy with themselves as the 'whole person' and not just 'the face'. It is truly sad. My prayers go to Lee Hye Ryun (U-nee) who by the sounds of it was a wonderful, sweet girl who fell victim to the vicious whims of the Korean public.
Koreans are blunt and even callous people even to people they meet the first time. If you are an beautiful girl, people will tell you straight away as soon as they meet you and you will be put on a pedestal at a young age and groomed as a 'gongju' or 'princess'. Unfortunately, if you aren't that attractive people couldn't care less about you. If a Korean notices that you have gained a little weight, they will tell it to your face, even if they don't know you that well. Can you imagine Westerners doing that? It is unthinkable.
That is why Korea is a country of extremes and that is why you have a lot insecure and quite a few mentally unstable women in Korea who think a little surgery will change everything. Korea is a country of haves and have nots from more than just an socio-economic perspective. If you are pretty, you'll get it all; the rich husband and the pampered life. If you are ugly, then you get the scraps and are thankful to get a job as a clerk in the bedding section of a department store.
I truly hope these celebrity suicides will have a lasting sobering effect on Korean society, but I'm not kidding myself. As Western influences continue tear away at the fabric of Korean culture and values, Korean youth will find it all the more difficult in defining itself, just as the youth of Japan have experienced.